Murphy Sucks

Saturday, May 7th, 2011

Dear Murphy,

You really do suck. It is just like you to kick a man when he is down. It is just like you to throw a rock down after a man has fallen down a well.

I know you can’t help it because it is in your nature to be a sadist. You like rubbing salt on a wound just to see people grimace. You like to pour kerosene on someone who is on fire just to hear them scream. I am also fully aware of how much you take joy in your fetish to see people suffer.

First you broke my washing machine, then my PS3 and then my fridge. You bastard. What else do you want from me?

Hating you with a passion,
Jason

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Getting Things Done Review

Monday, May 2nd, 2011

In my quest to build a better me, I came across a book by David Allen, a productivity consultant who is best known as the creator of the time management method known as “Getting Things Done”. “Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity” is the latest book in a long line of decade defining self-help business books such as “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie (1937) and “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen R. Covey (1989).

In this modern age that we live in, technology has made our lives easier and more convenient. In the workspace, modern technology and tools has enabled us to be more productive and efficient. The extra time that we have created for ourselves at work is being filled with more work and challenges. With advances in technology, we have also been pampered with having everything now, instantly. This creates a lot of extra work for the average workers.

As David describes in his book, in the old days, work was self-evident. Fields were to be plowed, machines tooled, boxes packed, cows milked, widgets cranked. You knew what work had to be done as you could see it. It was clear when the work was finished, or not finished. However, in this age that we live in, there are no edges to most of our projects. Most people have at least half a dozen things they’re trying to achieve right now, and even if they had the rest of their lives to try, they wouldn’t be able to finish these to perfection.

He also said that on another front, the lack of edges can create more work for everyone. Many of today’s organizational outcomes require cross-divisional communication, cooperation, and engagement. Our individual office silos are crumbling, and with them is going the luxury of not having to read cc’d e-mails from the marketing department, or from human resources, or from some ad hoc, deal-with-a-certain-issue committee. The disintegrating edges of our projects and our work in general would be challenging enough for anyone. But now we must add to that equation the constantly shifting definition of our jobs.

I am rather like a mosquito in a nudist camp; I know what I want to do, but I don’t know where to begin.” ~ Stephen Bayne

How are we suppose to handle with an endless barrage of e-mails, phone calls and new projects? How are we to juggle multiple tasks and conflicting priorities? Our conscious mental storage space is jam-packed full of thoughts about unfinished projects, problems, goals and other unresolved “open loops” in each role of our lives. Because of this, we find ourselves continually in a reactive mode, and rarely find time to engage in creative thinking or strategic planning time. This is where the “Getting Things Done” (GTD®) philosophy comes in.

The basic premise of the GTD® philosophy is based on one key idea, that is you will be more productive if you take the set of things you need to do out of your head and put them down on paper (or some other written form). Once that is done, you can then focus on the tasks at hand and not worry about forgetting stuff thereby enabling you to focus better, get individual tasks done faster, and then move right on to another task . It seems incredibly simple and just simply common sense, and that is all there is to it.

The truth is, it takes more energy to keep something inside your head than outside” ~ David Allen

David’s key concept is that every task, promise, or assignment has a place and a time. With everything in its proper place and time, you feel in control and replace the time spent on vague worrying with effective, timely action. As a result, the accomplishments grow while the pressure to accomplish decreases. The key psychological insight of this book is that rapid progress and the feeling of being in control occurs when you take large, unformed tasks, and break them down and organize them into smaller, sequential steps for exactly what to do and when. The book provides lots of guidance and examples for how to do this.

The book is organized into three sections. The first gives you a high level view of the GTD® concept and the entire process for how to get more done in a relaxed way. The second spells out the details of how to implement each of the processes described in the first part. The third and final part provides subtle insights that help you appreciate the benefits that follow from using the process. Like all good coaches, David understands that appreciating a subject from several perspectives and getting lots of practice with it are critical steps in learning.

This constant, unproductive preoccupation with all the things we have to do is the single largest consumer of time and energy.” ~ Kerry Gleeson

The process advocated by this book is described with lots of systems flow charts that will appeal to all of the engineers and left-brained people. The right-brained people will find lots of discussions about emotions, feelings, and stress. So both types of thinkers should do well with this material.

There are 5 major components to the GTD® system. They are:

Collect

Get everything you need to do down on paper. Things that command your attention be it personal or professional, big or small. Basically just about everything that you want to do in life. It can be both traumatic experience to see how much more stuff you need to accomplish with whats left of your short human lives. Oddly though, this exercise can also be liberating. Put all these stuff you need to do into what David call “buckets“. Your bucket could be a physical in-tray/inbox, an email inbox, a Moleskine® you carry with you, your smartphone etc.

You can pretty much put everything in your bucket. For example, you can chuck in a bill you need to pay, a sheet of paper with the words “replace light bulb in kitchen” or even a torchlight with batteries that need to be replaced. The recommended technique involves going through your entire house, office, car and anywhere else in your life, and gathering together all of the objects and papers that need something doing to them.

 

Process

Now that we you have collected all the things that you want to do it is time to process it. Start from the top of your inbox, pick up each item and decide whether there is an action you need to take about this item. If there is no action to take, you can either trash it, file it for reference or place it in your “Someday/Maybe” list. If there is an action to take, the technique is simple: if it will take less than two minutes, you do it straight away. If not, you add it to a to-do list by writing the very next physical action you will need to do to move the situation forward.

As mentioned in the book, the common complaint that “I don’t have to time to” is understandable because many projects (in GTD® lingo, it means any tasks that requires a few actions to complete) seem overwhelming – and are overwhelming – because you can’t do projects at all. So how do we deal with projects? As David says, “You can only do an action related to it. Many actions require only a minute or two, in the appropriate context, to move a project forward.

Organize

To manage actionable things, you will need a list of projects, storage or files for project plans and materials, a calendar, a list of reminders of next actions, and a list of reminders of things you’re waiting for. The basic lists look something like this:

  • Next Action
    What is the very next thing you need to do to get your thing done?
  • Projects
    Keep track of multi-action things here.
  • Waiting
    If you are waiting on something, write it down here, so you don’t forget.
  • Someday/Maybe
    For when you have a great idea or long-term goal that you just can’t make time to work on now. You don’t want to forget about it, but you don’t want it to clutter up your Projects list.
  • Context-sensitive lists
    e.g., “Phone calls,” “Errands,” etc.
  • Calendar
    Only use your calendar for appointments and other things that must happen on a particular day/time.
  • Filing
    Keep a simple, easy to update filing system. Don’t let files pile up in a slush pile. Get comfortable with putting a single piece of paper in a folder, labeling it, and filing it away.

Review

As described in the book, if you’re like me and most other people, no matter how good your intentions may be, you’re going to have the world come at you faster than you can keep up. Many of us seem to have it in our natures consistently to entangle ourselves in more than we have the ability to handle. We book ourselves back to back in meetings all day, go to after-hours events that generate ideas and commitments we need to deal with, and get embroiled in engagements and projects that have the potential to spin our creative intelligence into cosmic orbits.

That whirlwind of activity is precisely what makes the Weekly Review so valuable. The Weekly Review is whatever you need to do to get your head empty again. It’s going through the five phases of workflow management—collecting, processing, organizing, and reviewing all your outstanding involvements—until you can honestly say, “I absolutely know right now everything I’m not doing but could be doing if I decided to.”

‘Point of view’ is that quint-essentially human solution to information overload, an intuitive process of reducing things to an essential relevant and manageable minimum. . . . In a world of hyperabundant content, point of view will become the scarcest of resources.” ~ Paul Saffo

Get Things Done!

The GTD® system provides your the tools to organize your life and empowers you to make decisive choice on what you can and need to do at any given time. David Allen believe that if you have everything laid out in front of you, it will be obvious what needs to be done at any given moment based on your circumstances (deadlines, how much time you have available, what tools are nearby, how much energy you have, etc). All that is left is for you to actually do the tasks you need to do.

It all seems very simple. And in many ways, it is. But like all the best systems, GTD’s simplicity hides a considerable amount of sophistication. What looks like a mundane system of lists and calendars actually ties together to make something far more powerful. It is simple common sense, but with discipline. The critical part is the discipline because that is what focuses your attention to where it will do the most good. For example, rather than sitting on something you have no idea how to get started, you can decide right away to get ideas from others on what the purpose and principles are that should be used in selecting a solution. So, you are in motion, and you have saved much time and anxiety.

To read or not to read?

I would say that this book is recommended to everyone. It is simply the best personal productivity book I’ve ever read, and there’s material in this book that can apply to anyone‘s life. I’m actually going through my second read-through of the book and am implementing the principles both at work and home and I must say that there is certainly an improvement for me to get things done.

 

 

 

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End

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

Even a life-long prosperity is but one cup of sake;
A life of forty-nine years is passed in a dream;
I know not what life is, nor death.
Year in year out-all but a dream.
Both Heaven and Hell are left behind;
I stand in the moonlit dawn,
Free from clouds of attachment.

~ Uesugi Kenshin (1530-1578)

 

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Empire Building

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Thinking is the very essence of, and the most difficult thing to do in, business and in life. Empire builders spend hour-after-hour on mental work… While others party. If you’re not consciously aware of putting forth the effort to exert self-guided integrated thinking… Then you’re giving into laziness and no longer in control of your life.” ~ David Kekich

It certainly has been a long time since I really had any fun. I can’t remember a time when I actually have the opportunity or time to really play a game, read leisurely or have a TV/movie marathon session. Fun has been sucked out of my life. Coming from an upper middle class lifestyle to a working class lifestyle once I started working has placed a huge amount of pressure both physically and mentally. The loss of choice I used to have is something that I can’t get used too.

I spend long hours at work dealing crisis after crisis only to come home to figure out my next move and plot my next plan while taking into consideration potential missteps and unforeseen circumstances in my quest to reach financial freedom. Instead of playing games I am studying for my qualifications and work related literature; instead of reading my favorite novels I am reading about dry serious business/investment/self improvement books; instead of watching TV/movies I’m figuring out ways on how I can save more money while living from hand to mouth.

Having to spend hours-after-hours on mental work, with my mind working constantly overtime makes it hard to sleep. I keep waking up every other hour in the night with my mind still active. It is bloody annoying. I feel tired every day. I drink 2 – 4 shots of espresso each day. I drink about 6 – 8 cups of tea at work. Staying awake and productive is the name of the game although I have also realized that my Panadol/Neurofen/Aspirin consumption has increased. What I would give for a decent night’s sleep.

It is hard not to be jealous of your friends and peers that are out there enjoying and partying while you spend all your time building your empire once sand at a time. However, there is always a silver lining in everything that life throws at us. This challenging time for me has forced me to grow more mature and responsible. I have shed my ‘innocence’ and got rid of my happy go lucky attitude. I am a changed man. Hopefully for the best.

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Absent-minded

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

The basis of absent-mindedness is a failure between memory and attention. Usually when you are being absent-minded, it’s that your conscious processing is focused on something other than the task at hand; you are thinking about something else.

Recently, through my many trials and tribulations, I realised that I have a huge problem. I am cursed. Cursed with being absent-minded. Absent-mindedness can refer to three very different things:

  1. a low level of attention (“blanking” or “zoning out”);
  2. intense attention to a single object of focus (hyperfocus) that makes a person oblivious to events around him or her; or
  3. unwarranted distraction of attention from the object of focus by irrelevant thoughts or environmental events.

I am guilty of all of them.

I have found that my own biggest issue isn’t a lack of will or knowledge, or even applying that knowledge. My biggest problem is my absent-mindedness. While it happens to all of us from time to time, it seems to happen to me quite often. I would forget what I’m are doing and end up making a big mistake. Often, big mistakes I can deal with as with my personality, I usually accept whatever life throws at me and go with the flow.

It is when my absent-mindedness causes a mistake that directly impacts those that I truly love, I’m at loss at what to do. I just can’t seem to be able to focus my attention to resolve issues and my mind tends to wander. The funny thing is, when I’m at work handling multiple tasks, dealing with multiple distractions, providing leadership for support teams and resolving complex issues, I am able to focus and tackle them one by one. I’m great at what I’m doing at work. I am proud to say that I am successful in my career and it is progressing fine. Even playing complex strategy games I can handle it just fine.

However, when it comes to applying it to my own life, I falter. I have been trying to improve myself. I am getting there, but at a very sloth like place. It is just too slow for my liking and meanwhile I keep stumbling. Knowing one’s own mistake is the first step to be a better person. I know. However, I just can’t seem to keep forcing myself to be able to concentrate and focus on everything around me, to tackle all the issues that is affecting my personal life well.

After much reflections, I have identified my flaws:

  1. I hate having to keep track of many different things. I also hate focusing on details and multitasking (This only applies to real life. When it comes to work or playing games, I would love it. I just can’t figure out why).
  2. I’m very absent-minded. Without reminders, I will forget things.
  3. I have a deeply ingrained habit of being late. I seem to be constantly wrongly estimating and losing track of time. I always think that there is still time and greatly underestimate how long things will take. (e.g. if my tram comes at 8.24am, I will start getting ready at 8.20am, thinking I can just walk outside and catch it. But then I realize I need to pack my bag first, and then I can’t find my wallet, and I miss the tram).
  4. I’m heavily oriented toward electronic organizational strategies.

While I could come up with individual solutions for each of these problems I am sure that some people just have an easier time getting organized and may be saying to yourselves, “that’s so easy to avoid.” But in practice it has been very hard for me to come up with a systematic way of preventing these things from happening. I guess it is partly because I am a procrastinator. I keep putting things off. Couple with being easily distracted, I forget things easily and when shit starts hitting the fan, I suddenly remembered that I should have and needed to do that thing which I delayed/forget.

Being technically savvy, I’ve tried computer/digitally based software or methods to keep track of things and notes, But it ended up being sitting in the background collecting digital dust. Maybe it is just not easy enough to carry around. Even with a personal organizer on my mobile that syncs with my desktop/laptop, I am still not using it as religiously as I should. Maybe, I just lack the willpower.

Recently, I’ve started to get into a habit of jotting things to be done on my physical desk diary at work. I write down the things that needed to be done and tick them off as the day progresses and I find that it is helpful given the ad-hoc/non-streamlined multi-tasking nature of my job. I should probably get one for my daily life.

Which brings to me to another weakness that I’m trying to correct. Long-term planning. While writing down daily reminders and short term things that needs to be done is all well and fine, planning for complicated task that takes a longer time horizon to be completed is something that still escapes me. Doing that with work and for playing games is fine for me but I just can’t for the life of me figure out why I simply CAN’T translate it to my personal life.

It is frustrating. I hate it.

Research has shown that external factors such as lack of sleep, a stressful situation, and having poor nutrition can all lead to having a poor level of focusing. I guess that has to do with what I’m currently going through as well. Maybe I’m just dealing with too many major things at the same time that I’m not used too. Having to grow up in such a short amount of time is challenging indeed. With only my wife for support, I do feel lonely at times especially when she has her own problems with finding a job and settling with Australian life and I just don’t want to add extra burdens for her.

I really need to change. Fast.

 

 

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A Dream within a Dream

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

Take this kiss upon the brow!
And, in parting from you now,
Thus much let me avow—
You are not wrong, who deem
That my days have been a dream:
Yet if hope has flown away
In a night, or in a day,
In a vision or in none,
Is it therefore the less gone?
All that we see or seem
Is but a dream within a dream.

I stand amid the roar
Of a surf-tormented shore,
And I hold within my hand
Grains of the golden sand—
How few! yet how they creep
Through my fingers to the deep
While I weep—while I weep!
O God! can I not grasp
Them with a tighter clasp?
O God! can I not save
One from the pitiless wave?
Is all that we see or seem
But a dream within a dream?

~ Edgar Allan Poe

 

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Alcohol

Saturday, March 12th, 2011

It has been awhile since I have drank so much. I have been drinking for 5 hours straight yesterday at a corporate function. I was perfectly fine when I finally left the venue. I was doing some calculations and reading a novel until I reached home.

I managed to climb the stairs to my apartment, took a warm shower and surf the net for a little bit. That the full effect of the alcohol hit me.

Massive headache, tummy churning, chills…. went straight to bed at 9pm. Slept straight through until 10am.

Never going to drink this much again…. maybe. All in all it was fun. A good chance to meet and get to know people on the floor who you never really dealt with.

Entertaining to hear crazy stories and exploits. Can’t wait for the next one.

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Shadow

Thursday, March 3rd, 2011

From childhood’s hour I have not been
As others were; I have not seen
As others saw; I could not bring
My passions from a common spring.

From the same source I have not taken
My sorrow; I could not awaken
My heart to joy at the same tone;
And all I loved, I loved alone.

Then- in my childhood, in the dawn
Of a most stormy life- was drawn
From every depth of good and ill
The mystery which binds me still:

From the torrent, or the fountain,
From the red cliff of the mountain,
From the sun that round me rolled
In its autumn tint of gold,
From the lightning in the sky
As it passed me flying by,
From the thunder and the storm,
And the cloud that took the form
(When the rest of Heaven was blue)
Of a demon in my view.

~ Edgar Allan Poe

 

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Disposition

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

Mention this to me

Mention this to me
Watch the weather change

Watch the weather change

Watch the weather change

Watch the weather Change

Mention this to me
Mention something,
mention anything.

Mention this to me
Watch the weather change

Watch the weather change
Watch the weather change
Watch the weather change

Watch the weather
Change

Watch the weather
Change

Mention this to me
and Mention something,
mention anything

Mention this to me
Watch the weather

Watch the weather change
Watch the weather change
Watch the weather

~ Tool, Disposition

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Thanks Murphy

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong ~ Murphy’s Law

Everything will go wrong at one time… That time is always when you least expect it.

Given the most inappropriate time for something to go wrong, that’s when it will occur.

If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.

80% of the final exam will be based on the one lecture you missed and the one book you didn’t read.

As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold.

It’s always been and always will be the same in the world: The horse does the work and the coachman is tipped.

Shin: a device for finding furniture in the dark.

No one is listening until you fart.

When something breaks, the parts damaged are in direct proportion to their value.

The other queue always moves faster.

In order to get a bank loan, you must first prove that you don’t need the money.

 

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If it can be shown that something that could have gone wrong did not go wrong, then subsequent events will prove that everything would ultimately have turned out better if that thing had gone wrong.

And finally, for those of you who claims that Murphy’s Law does not exits….

Proof of Murphy’s Law: Murphy’s Law cannot be proven, yet is correct, as when you try to prove Murphy’s Law, you will see that the proof is incorrect. This is obviously due to Murphy’s Law, therefore Murphy’s Law is correct and proven.

Thanks Murphy. Thank you very much!

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